"I want so and so to go out with me!"
Then get to know them and ask them out.
Love spells are normally very powerful and absolutely SHOULD NOT be directed at a specific individual. Love spells should only be used to attract a lover with the qualities of a person you are looking for. I will even go as far as saying that I can be disastrous if you use a love spell on a specific person. Matters of love are very complicated and can be dangerous if not used properly.
I say all that because I believe casting a love spell to make someone specific to love you is a violation of the rede. It manipulates him/her to love you and they won't know why they feel that way, in result, making it black magick.
"Well, if love spells are black magick, and I cast one on the person I want to go out with…"
You too may later go crazy or be manipulated by some other force. What is done, always returns to the doer. So take caution when casting a love spell.
DISCLAIMER: What I have included here are love spell correspondences and spells I have found in various online books and sites on the web some time ago (see bibliography). I have never tried a love spell because I never wanted magick to interfere with my emotions in such a way. I personally want everything to be natural.
Love Magick Correspondences
Spell to attract a lover
"These are the traits of a wo/man who will come to love me soon."
Hold the candle between the palms of your hands and direct all of your energy into the candle. Place the candle in its holder. Prior to lighting the candle, say:
"This candle represents the love between (your name) and a wo/man who will soon come into my life."
Light the candle and say:
"As I light this candle, the love between my intended lover and me grows strong. Our love is such, that all feels the attraction. As this candle burns, it draws us ever near. Powerful is the persuasion! His/her days are long and filled with yearning for me. His/her nights are long and filled with desire for me. To be as one, together, is all that s/he would wish. To be as one, forever is his/her immediate need. For no rest shall he find, until he is by my side!"
Sit and meditate and conetrate on your intended lover and the desire that person has for you. When the candle has burned 1/3 of the way, say:
"My lover will come to me."
And blow out the candle. Repeat this for two more nights.
Spell to be irresistable
Spell to Ease a Broken Heart
"Oh, Great Mother Goddess, enclose me in Your loving arms and nurture and bring me forth the Goddess within me."
Gaze deeply into the mirror after you have finished mixing the ingredients and say aloud,
"I represent the Great Goddess, Mother of all things. I shine in the light of the Golden Wings of Isis. All that is great and loving only belongs to me."
Then put half the mixture in the pink bag and add the penny and crystal. Carry it with you always or until you find another love. Leave the other half of the potion in the bowl, out in a room where you will smell the fragrance.
A simpler attraction spell
"By the power of three, so make it be."
...each time you go through the flame. Take a handful of cinnamon and using a spoon and bowl, mix it with dried and crushed red rose petals. Sprinkle the shell with some of the mixture and imagine yourself attracting many different people. Take the rest of the mixture and make a bath with it. Bathe in it. Then carry the shell with you in a pocket or purse at all times.
The most important love spell:
If you are not open to love, no love spell can work. You may want to do this spell as preparation for any other love spell you do. In fact, this spell to make yourself open to love might be the only love spell you will ever need. Look inside yourself: is there something in you that blocks love? For instance, do you feel you don¹t deserve love? Or perhaps you think that no one could ever love YOU? Or maybe you think you are too fat, or too thin? Maybe you are afraid to ask someone out on a date? Whatever the negative belief, fear or other internal block is, get in touch with it, then use soap and water to ³wash it away.² Actually put your hands in water and wash them as a way to get rid of your block to love!
The path of love:
If you feel the need to do more than the above spell get five red roses. Go about a block from your house and drop one rose. Drop three more on the way back home. Drip the fifth at your door. While you do all this chant out loud or silently, ³This is a path of love. My true love will find me.² You have given your true love a path by which to find you!
Proud as a peacock:
Maybe this is more your style. Wear a peacock feather or some emblem of the peacock. For instance, cut off the decorative end of a peacock feather and pin it to your lapel instead of a rose, or wear earrings shaped like peacocks. Look in the mirror and repeat as many times as you want, ³I am spreading my tail feathers.² Leave the house and see what happens. This is NOT a spell to make anyone see you the way you want them to see you. This is like a peacock spreading his tail to court, but on a psychic level.
Your true love:
Many poeple want to have a relationship with the
person who is just right for them. I was once asked ³How can I make my mate
the ideal mate for me?² ARGH!!!!!! Why do poeple feel that once they have
mated, their job is to change the beloved?
Basic herbs spell
Only do this to attract love to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"Oh Gods an Goddesses, Ladys and Masters, Old witches and Ghosts, Souls, listen to me, for I am unhappy. I am casting this spell to attract love to me for I have not yet had good luck in love. I want love attracted to me as if my body was a magnet and love was metal. I have not broken the wiccan rede therefore fullfill my spell." Then say "North, West, South East," as many times as felt needed and then say "Fire, for love, Water, for love, Earth, for love, Air, for love." Take your hands away and visualize love being sucked into yourself. Then say "Thankyou for staying here and listening to me. Thankyou for fullfilling my spell and wishes." Then close the circle. If you don't know how to do that go to my page circle casting.
Get 5 roses. Go about a block from your house and drop one. On the way back drop three more. Then drop one on your doorstep. While doing this chan the words: "This is a path of love. My true love will find me." Only works for those who believe.
Heart Love Spell
Play a CD or Tape of some romantic music that means something to you. Make sure that the music does not include songs that you associate with another person. It is important to keep specific people out of your mind performing this spell. On a sheet of cardboard, light a candle of your favorite color to represent you. Then, light a red or pink candle to represent whoever your new love may be. Using a red magic marker or crayon, draw a heart around the red candle. Every day for at least a week, relight the candles in the evening, and as soon as you light the candles, move them slightly closer together, so that on the last day, the candles are as close together as possible.
Spell to Foretell Love