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"I want so and so to go out with me!"

Then get to know them and ask them out.

Love spells are normally very powerful and absolutely SHOULD NOT be directed at a specific individual. Love spells should only be used to attract a lover with the qualities of a person you are looking for. I will even go as far as saying that I can be disastrous if you use a love spell on a specific person. Matters of love are very complicated and can be dangerous if not used properly.

I say all that because I believe casting a love spell to make someone specific to love you is a violation of the rede. It manipulates him/her to love you and they won't know why they feel that way, in result, making it black magick.

"Well, if love spells are black magick, and I cast one on the person I want to go out with…"

You too may later go crazy or be manipulated by some other force. What is done, always returns to the doer. So take caution when casting a love spell.

DISCLAIMER: What I have included here are love spell correspondences and spells I have found in various online books and sites on the web some time ago (see bibliography). I have never tried a love spell because I never wanted magick to interfere with my emotions in such a way. I personally want everything to be natural.

Love Magick Correspondences

  • Planet- Venus
  • Element- Earth / Water
  • Day- Friday (Venus's Day)
  • Numbers- 5 / 7
  • Metal- Copper / Silver
  • Colors- Red/ deep pink / orange
  • Moon Phase- Waxing
  • Sign- Taurus
  • Hours- 1am, 8am, 3pm, 10pm
  • Symbol- Circle* / Heart
  • Herbs- (see herb section)
  • Foods- strawberries
  • Drinks- whine, strawberry tea

  • *If a spell calls for you to draw something around a name or quality, draw a circle because a circle goes on forever, whereas a heart can be broken.

    Deities FOR:

  • Advice: Freia, Neith
  • Affection: Rati
  • Intimate friendship: Mitra
  • Loving-Kindness: Kuan yin
  • Emotional love: Kama
  • Spiritual love: Charite
  • Mutual love: Anteros
  • Married love: Gaia, Hera
  • Profane love: Venus
  • Fatal love: Oengus
  • Homosexual love: Eros
  • Gaining favor for the one you love: Benzaiten
  • Success in love affairs: Urvasi
  • Union: Branwen
  • Harmonious relationship: Lu Pan
  • Living together: the Gandharvas
  • Domestic harmony: Dhatri, Uma
  • Monogamy: Hera
  • Marriage: Benzaiten, Juno, Dulha Deo, Hymen, Hymenaios
  • A wedding: Hera
  • Marriage preparations: Unxia
  • A wife: Ah Kin
  • A husband: Hathor, Haoma
  • Happy marriage: Freya
  • Ending quarrels in marriage: Juno
  • Deities TO:
  • Avenge slighted love: Anteros
  • Punish a heartless lover: Nemesis
  • Protect young couples: Ya' halan
  • Know whom you will marry: Ch'I ku-niang

    To Bring Truth To The Matter Of Love

    When you are wanting to know how he or she really feels try this! You can use a red, pink, white or maroon candle. LIght with wooden matches and to put out use a snuffer or wet finger, say:

    The power of love
    Bring with will
    The truth be known
    Of how he/she feels
    So now it will be


    To Attract A Love

    On a sheet of cardboard light a candle of your favorite color to represent you. Then light a red or pink candle to represent whoever your new love may be. (Red for male, pink for female) Using a red magick marker or crayon draw a heart around the red candle. Everyday for at least a week, relight the candles in the evening and as soon as you relight the candles move them slightly closer together, so that on the last day they are as close together as possible.


    To Reunite Parted Lovers
    (use common sense and caution with this spell, its very close to controlling anothers will!!!)

    Best done during the waxing moon.
    Needed: Needle, smooth white stone, pink or red cloth, pink ribbon.

    Prick the tip of your left index finger, squeeze out a bit of blood. Visualize being together with your lover, while using the blood to write your initials on the smooth white stone. Write your lovers initials next to your (still using the blood) Draw 3 circles (using the blood) around both initials. Wrap the stone in a pink or red cloth tied with a pink ribbon. Bury it in the ground near a Venus herb (Rose) You should be reunited with your lover in 3 days.

    Simple Love Spell

    Use red, white and pink candles, use Sage to cast your circle, chant:

    By the powers of Earth, Fire and Water
    May love come to me
    By the powers of 1,2,3
    Let no harm be
    So let it be! 


    Love Wine

    When you have your lover over for a drink use this to ensure his/her love:

    3 tsp. Cinnamon
    3 tsp. Ginger
    1 one inch piece Vanilla Bean
    2 cups red wine
    2 tsp. Rhubarb juice

    Score the Vanilla bean along its length. Add herbs to the wine with the Vanilla bean. Let stand for 3-4 days then serve.


    The Sweet Bottle

    On a popsicle stick write your full name. On the other side write the name of the one you love. Get a jar big enough for the popsicle stick to fit inside. Fill the jar with water, honey and sugar. Seal up the lid. In your mind get a clear picture your loved one. Shake the bottle as you chant the following verse 3-5-7-or 9 times:

    Sweet, sweet
    Thoughts of me
    You will think


    The Hyacinth Spell
    (THIS WAS THE FIRST SPELL I EVER DID, I WAS 12 again ethics! !!!

    To return a loved one or gain the affections of a love interest. This spell may be performed with any type of bulb, from a Tulip to an Onion, although the sweeter smelling ones seem to have more success! Plant the bulb in a new flower pot, naming it your loved one as you do. If possible tape a picture of the desired one to the bottom of the pot out of the view of others. Every morning and evening when you water it chant these words:

    As this root grows
    And this blossom blooms
    May (name of person) heart be turned to me
    As my will, so mote it be!

    True Love Spell

    Items needed: One red cloth in the shape of a square
                        One pink piece of chalk
                        4 Red candles
                        A picture of an item of the person you want to love you.

    Place the red cloth on the floor or any type of flat surface. Put one candle on each corner tip. Put the picture of the person in the middle of the square cloth. With the pink chalk draw a heart around the picture or items. Chant:

    Goddess of love hear me now
    I need love from (person's name)
    Please answer my pray
    So mote it be


    To Attract Someone Specific
    (Read Ethics!) 

    When the moon is waxing and love is in the air, take a photo of the man or woman you desire affection and place it face up in a small pink box (heart shaped if you have it) then cover it and bury it with the herb known as Ladies Thumb, outside near the entrance to your house to draw your beloved to you.

    To Attract The Opposite Sex

    Brew a tea from anyone of the following herbs:

    Sunbul Root

    Strain and add to bath water for 7 nights in a row. 


    To Make Love Secure

    Take a lock of hair, or nail clippings from your lover or spouse, and by the light of a Strawberry Pink Scented Candle, place them in a hollowed out apple, along with a dried and ground Unicorn Root, Pansy flowers, or Spikenard and a lock of your own hair. Pass the apple through the smoke of Frankincense and Myrrh. Wrap it in a piece of white satin, then bury it in the back yard. ( If you don't have a back yard bury it in a large pot, preferably with a Venus ruled plant. ie: Rose)

    Folk Magick Love


    Spells For A Broken Heart


    Place dried rose buds (not opened ones) Rue, Lavender, Jasmine, Mistletoe and Lady's Mantle into a Red or Purple Silk or Cotton pouch. Tie it with a matching ribbon and while passing it through the smoke of some love incense say:

    Pouch of mine
    Lover's hearts entwine no more
    Heal my heart
    For now we part-good-bye
    The pain I feel, I need to heal
    Good Bye


    Another Way To Attract A Lover

    This ritual should be done every night before going to bed until results are achieved. It is very easy and only takes a few moments. Sit by a window in the room you are sleeping in. Look outside and find a star. The brightest ones work the best because it is easy to find more then once. Find the star and imagine it is the person you want and say:


    Blow a kiss to the star and go to sleep. Don't look at the star again until next time you perform the ritual.

    Bring Your Love To You
    (Ethics again!) 

    Visualize the person you love coming to you. You can use the flame of a pink candle to help you focus, or you can drip water on the pictures of both you and your lover, then say:

    Sacred water flow from me
    To draw him/her ever near
    As endless rivers run to see
    His/her path to me is clear

    A love that's true, once here he'll/she'll find
    And know his/her journeys end
    And in his/her heart and soul and mind
    He'll/she'll know our lives should blend.


    To Get Someone To Kiss You 

    Take *red lipstick* and draw a lip print on a piece of paper. Then burn the paper over a red candle while chanting:

    Kiss me when next we meet
    Kiss me (person's name)
    Greet me with your lips
    And tell me you have missed me
    But most of all kiss me

    The next time you see that person he/she will run up and kiss you!


    The Salt Love Spell

    (From the book *Love Magick by Laurie Cabot)

    Sit in front of a fire and go into the Alpha state, and hold some kosher salt in your left hand. Allow your feelings for the one you love to go into the salt. Just as salt is sprinkled on food to flavor it, visualize your love flavoring the salt. Then toss it into the flames and say:

    It is not this fire I wish to salt
    But the heart of the man/woman that I love
    If it is good for the both of us
    May both our hearts burn
    With true love for each other
    So mote it be!


    Spell to attract a lover

  • Incense (herbs or oils work fine also)
  • Red Candle
  • Paper
  • Pen

  • Ritual: This is a 3 day spell, and it is best to find a work area that you can leave untouched for three days. If you must put away your tools, try to at least keep your spell candle out in the open. This spell can be used for the type of person you want to attract.
    Prepare your work area by setting up any tools you may use in addition to your spell candle. Love or protection incense is recommended (herbs or oils can also be used). While setting up your area, CONCENTRATE on the purpose of your work. Do not let negative thoughts enter your mind!
    Just prior to your work, bathe in purification herbs. While you are bathing, concentrate again on the purpose of your spell. Again, do not let negative thoughts enter your mind.
    After bathing, go to your work area. Light some incense and cast your circle. Envision a large, pink ball of light surrounding you and your work area.
    With a pen, write on a piece of paper the traits you would like your lover to have, directing as much energy as possible to it. Concentrate on loving a person with those qualities, and him/her loving you back. Then say:

    "These are the traits of a wo/man who will come to love me soon."

    Hold the candle between the palms of your hands and direct all of your energy into the candle. Place the candle in its holder. Prior to lighting the candle, say:

    "This candle represents the love between (your name) and a wo/man who will soon come into my life."

    Light the candle and say:

    "As I light this candle, the love between my intended lover and me grows strong. Our love is such, that all feels the attraction. As this candle burns, it draws us ever near. Powerful is the persuasion! His/her days are long and filled with yearning for me. His/her nights are long and filled with desire for me. To be as one, together, is all that s/he would wish. To be as one, forever is his/her immediate need. For no rest shall he find, until he is by my side!"

    Sit and meditate and conetrate on your intended lover and the desire that person has for you. When the candle has burned 1/3 of the way, say:

    "My lover will come to me."

    And blow out the candle. Repeat this for two more nights.


    Spell to be irresistable

  • A piece of soft material in pink or white
  • A small seashell
  • New key or one bathed in salt water
  • A hair from his/her head or a drawing of the person
  • 2 sewing needles tied together with red cotton
  • Some of your favourite perfume
  • A piece of white ribbon

  • Time: on a full moon at midnight
    Ritual: Take all the items except the piece of white ribbon and place them on top of the piece of material. Close your eyes and imagine a beautiful golden light surrounding you filling you with love and energy. Spray a little perfume over everything, then gather up the four sides o fthe material and tie them making a small bag.
    Put it in your purse or pocket whenever you are going to be near him/her and let the magick work it's stuff- you can also keep it in your bedroom when you are not using it. Lay the charm on a nice dress or outfit you are going to wear next time when you seem them and "charge" the clothes with the spell.


    Spell to Ease a Broken Heart

  • Strawberry tea (1 bag)
  • Some salt (sea salt if you can get it!)
  • 2 pink candles
  • a mirror
  • one pink drawstring bag
  • one quartz crystal
  • a copper penny
  • bowl that is somehow special to you
  • 1 teaspoon dried jasmine, rose, OR strawberry leaves
  • Some rose, strawberry, OR cinnamon oil

  • Ritual: Chare all ingredients first by infusing them with your personal energy. On a Friday morning or evening, when the moon is either new or waxing and close to being new, take a bath with a small handful of salt in it, in the light of a pink candle. As you dry off and dress, sip the strawberry tea. Apply makeup or groom yourself to look your best. Cast a circle around a table with the other ingredients. Light the second pink candle. Mix all the oils and herbs in the bowl. While you stir, look at yourself in the mirror and say aloud:

    "Oh, Great Mother Goddess, enclose me in Your loving arms and nurture and bring me forth the Goddess within me."

    Gaze deeply into the mirror after you have finished mixing the ingredients and say aloud,

    "I represent the Great Goddess, Mother of all things. I shine in the light of the Golden Wings of Isis. All that is great and loving only belongs to me."

    Then put half the mixture in the pink bag and add the penny and crystal. Carry it with you always or until you find another love. Leave the other half of the potion in the bowl, out in a room where you will smell the fragrance.


    A simpler attraction spell

  • Orange candle
  • Small seashell
  • Cinnamon
  • Bowl
  • Spoon
  • Dried and crushed rose petals

  • Ritual: Light an orange candle, then take a small seashell and pass it three times through the flame. As you do this say:

    "By the power of three, so make it be."

    ...each time you go through the flame. Take a handful of cinnamon and using a spoon and bowl, mix it with dried and crushed red rose petals. Sprinkle the shell with some of the mixture and imagine yourself attracting many different people. Take the rest of the mixture and make a bath with it. Bathe in it. Then carry the shell with you in a pocket or purse at all times.


    The most important love spell:

    If you are not open to love, no love spell can work. You may want to do this spell as preparation for any other love spell you do. In fact, this spell to make yourself open to love might be the only love spell you will ever need. Look inside yourself: is there something in you that blocks love? For instance, do you feel you don¹t deserve love? Or perhaps you think that no one could ever love YOU? Or maybe you think you are too fat, or too thin? Maybe you are afraid to ask someone out on a date? Whatever the negative belief, fear or other internal block is, get in touch with it, then use soap and water to ³wash it away.² Actually put your hands in water and wash them as a way to get rid of your block to love!


    The path of love:

    If you feel the need to do more than the above spell get five red roses. Go about a block from your house and drop one rose. Drop three more on the way back home. Drip the fifth at your door. While you do all this chant out loud or silently, ³This is a path of love. My true love will find me.² You have given your true love a path by which to find you!


    Proud as a peacock:

    Maybe this is more your style. Wear a peacock feather or some emblem of the peacock. For instance, cut off the decorative end of a peacock feather and pin it to your lapel instead of a rose, or wear earrings shaped like peacocks. Look in the mirror and repeat as many times as you want, ³I am spreading my tail feathers.² Leave the house and see what happens. This is NOT a spell to make anyone see you the way you want them to see you. This is like a peacock spreading his tail to court, but on a psychic level.


    Your true love:

    Many poeple want to have a relationship with the person who is just right for them. I was once asked ³How can I make my mate the ideal mate for me?² ARGH!!!!!! Why do poeple feel that once they have mated, their job is to change the beloved?
    However, if you are not sure whether you and your mate are meant for each other, and you are willing to forfeit the relationship should this not be the case, do this love spell. Take two silver dollars. Two pennies will also do. Toss them into the air reciting, ³May we each go to our own true love.² I repeat, do not do this spell unless you only want to be with a true love and so are willing to forfeit your present relationship should it not represent your true love. Sometimes a relationship isn¹t ³THE ONE² but it is sacred for its own sake and worth keeping. Also, a true love isn't neccessarily a mate for love while the person you are with now just might be. Should the coins land far apart, do not take this as a sign that you will separate. This is not meant as a divination spell.


    Basic herbs spell

    Only do this to attract love to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    The first thing you need to do is set up your altar:

    Goddess Candle - White
    God Candle - Red
    Bowl of Water Pink Candle
    Bowl of Salt
    Cup with Juice Pentacle

    Carve hearts in the pink candle.
    1 - teaspoon of each herb listed.
    Rose petals
    Orris root
    Orange flowers
    Jasmine flowers
    Gardenia flowers
    Carnation petals
    Baby's Breath

    Here are some Substitutions you can use, if you can't find the above herbs.
    Any of these herbs can be used in this spell:

    Other Herbs You Can Use:
    Apple Blossom
    Dragon's Blood
    Geranium (Rose)
    Lemon Balm
    Lemon Verbena

    Now, you must empower the herbs. When you are done empowering the herbs
    place the herbs around all three of the candle holders. Light the candles
    and ask the Goddess and the God to bless your spell. Use words that you feel
    comfortable using. When you are done thank the Goddess and the God for being
    present during your spell. Try and let the candle burn all day. Make sure
    you NEVER LEAVE A BURNING CANDLE ALONE. If you are going to leave the room
    pinch or snuff the candle out. NEVER BLOW THE CANDLE OUT!!!!!!!!!!!

    Candles circle spell
    Only use this spell to attract love to you!!!!!!!!!
    Go to a place or a room where you already had romantic contacts with somebody else. If you did not have any romantic contacts yet then go to a place or room wher you could immagine having romantic contacts with that person. Sit down in the center of the room or place. If the place is outside in nature sit under a tree. You don't have to but it would be good. Sit in a comfortable position. Take as many red candles as you can and as many pink candles as you can and form a big circle with them with you sittins in the center of it. While putting the candles around the circle you have to be inside the circle. You are not allowed to step out of it. Dast the circle while lighting the candles. If you don't know how to cast the circle go to my page circle casting. Sit in the center of the circle and close your eyes and visiualize all the love there is around you going into your body like swooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooosh. Really concentrate of seeing all the love going into your body. Do that for about a minute or two and then visiualize all the girls/boys falling in love with you. Vizualize all the girls/boys fighting against each other to win your love. Do that for about five minutes. Open your eyes and put your hands on your heart humming a bit or singing joyfull for your heart and thinking how beuatifull it is. Do that for about thirty seconds and then say while still having your hands on your heart

    "Oh Gods an Goddesses, Ladys and Masters, Old witches and Ghosts, Souls, listen to me, for I am unhappy. I am casting this spell to attract love to me for I have not yet had good luck in love. I want love attracted to me as if my body was a magnet and love was metal. I have not broken the wiccan rede therefore fullfill my spell." Then say "North, West, South East," as many times as felt needed and then say "Fire, for love, Water, for love, Earth, for love, Air, for love." Take your hands away and visualize love being sucked into yourself. Then say "Thankyou for staying here and listening to me. Thankyou for fullfilling my spell and wishes." Then close the circle. If you don't know how to do that go to my page circle casting.


    Roses Spell

    Get 5 roses. Go about a block from your house and drop one. On the way back drop three more. Then drop one on your doorstep. While doing this chan the words: "This is a path of love. My true love will find me." Only works for those who believe.


    Heart Love Spell

    Play a CD or Tape of some romantic music that means something to you. Make sure that the music does not include songs that you associate with another person. It is important to keep specific people out of your mind performing this spell. On a sheet of cardboard, light a candle of your favorite color to represent you. Then, light a red or pink candle to represent whoever your new love may be. Using a red magic marker or crayon, draw a heart around the red candle. Every day for at least a week, relight the candles in the evening, and as soon as you light the candles, move them slightly closer together, so that on the last day, the candles are as close together as possible.


    Bring Someone Close Spell

    There are any number of ways to do this spell. You can drip water (preferably Full Moon Water) on photos of you and your beloved. You can set a candle in a bowl of water and allow it to burn until the water extinguishes it. You also may want to use Come To Me oil and/or incense for the spell. However you do it, visualize your beloved arriving from afar to find your love!
      Sacred water flow from me
      To draw him ever near
      As endless rivers run to sea
      His path to me is clear.
      A love that's true once here he'll find
      And know his journey's end.
      And in his heart and soul and mind
      He'll know our lives should blend.


    Love Sachet

    Items needed:
    leather or pink silk pouch
    pink candle
    4 white candles
    catnip or jasmine
    paper + pen
    Cast the circle, then consecrate it with salt+water. Call the Goddess and God (optional), and the four elements. Place the 4 candles around the circle, make sure they're in the right spots for each of the directions ( north, south, etc...) Place the pink candle in front of you, behind the couldren. Light the white candles calling out their elements, then light the pink candle. Write down on a piece of paper what qualities you want ( cute, funny, etc...) Burn the catnip/jasmine then paper. Say 3 times:
    " I burn this candle to bring me a lover"
    " I burn this paper to bring me a lover"
    " I burn this catnip/jasmine to bring me a lover"
    " Power this sachet with love"
    When everything is burnt down to ashes, put them in the sachet/pouch.
    Wear aroung your neck all the time, and kiss pouch 3 times each day.

    Spell to Foretell Love

    I got this spell out of the book Teen Witch by Silver Ravenwolf. You can buy it at
    Sometimes we really like someone but say nothing because we fear if we made an advance, we would experience rejection. Here's a spell to give you the green light(or the red light)

    Moon Phase: Full
    Day: Friday
    Planet: Venus
    Supplies: A small, new, red rubber ball.

    In a sacred space, cleanse, consecrate and empower the red rubber ball. As you bounce the red rubber ball, repeat the following spell,

    From ground to air
    From air to ground
    I bounce the magick
    Round and round
    Do you like me?
    Do you love me?
    I need to know the answer.

    Dragon's eyes
    and angel's wings
    Now I touch the fairy ring
    Do you like me?
    Do you love me?
    I need to know the answer.

    Earth and Air
    Fire and Water
    My little ball
    goes higher and higher
    Mine is the Magick
    Mine is the power
    It's time to know the answer.

    Repeat the last line and keep bouncing the ball. Keep bouncing the ball and say:
    With harm to none, as I will it so shall it be done. May all the astrological correspondences be correct for this working, and may this spell not reverse or place upon me any curse.
    So mote it be.
    You should recieve your answer shortly. If you do not have your answer in thirty days repeat this spell.

    Fast Love Spell

    On a blank peice a paper, make a wish inside a circle. Say: To the highestspirit of my universe please grant me love and stop any negativity towards me.
    Draw an arrow, a half moon, and a star. You should see results tomorrow :)


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