"I want so and so to go out with me!"
Then get to know them and ask them out.
Love spells are normally very powerful and absolutely SHOULD NOT be directed at a specific individual. Love spells should only be used to attract a lover with the qualities of a person you are looking for. I will even go as far as saying that I can be disastrous if you use a love spell on a specific person. Matters of love are very complicated and can be dangerous if not used properly.
I say all that because I believe casting a love spell to make someone specific to love you is a violation of the rede. It manipulates him/her to love you and they won't know why they feel that way, in result, making it black magick.
"Well, if love spells are black magick, and I cast one on the person I want to go out with…"
You too may later go crazy or be manipulated by some other force. What is done, always returns to the doer. So take caution when casting a love spell.
DISCLAIMER: What I have included here are love spell correspondences and spells I have found in various online books and sites on the web some time ago (see bibliography). I have never tried a love spell because I never wanted magick to interfere with my emotions in such a way. I personally want everything to be natural.
Love Magick Correspondences
To Bring Truth To The Matter Of Love
When you are wanting to know how he or she really feels try this! You can use a red, pink, white or maroon candle. LIght with wooden matches and to put out use a snuffer or wet finger, say:
The power of love
To Attract A Love
On a sheet of cardboard light a candle of your
favorite color to represent you. Then light a red or pink candle to
represent whoever your new love may be. (Red for male, pink for female)
Using a red magick marker or crayon draw a heart around the red candle.
Everyday for at least a week, relight the candles in the evening and as soon
as you relight the candles move them slightly closer together, so that on
the last day they are as close together as possible.
To Reunite Parted Lovers
Best done during the waxing moon.
Prick the tip of your left index finger, squeeze out a
bit of blood. Visualize being together with your lover, while using the
blood to write your initials on the smooth white stone. Write your lovers
initials next to your (still using the blood) Draw 3 circles (using the
blood) around both initials. Wrap the stone in a pink or red cloth tied with
a pink ribbon. Bury it in the ground near a Venus herb (Rose) You should be
reunited with your lover in 3 days.
Simple Love Spell
Use red, white and pink candles, use Sage to cast your circle, chant:
By the powers of Earth, Fire and Water
When you have your lover over for a drink use this to ensure his/her love:
3 tsp. Cinnamon
Score the Vanilla bean along its length. Add herbs to the wine with the Vanilla bean. Let stand for 3-4 days then serve.
The Sweet Bottle
On a popsicle stick write your full name. On the other side write the name of the one you love. Get a jar big enough for the popsicle stick to fit inside. Fill the jar with water, honey and sugar. Seal up the lid. In your mind get a clear picture your loved one. Shake the bottle as you chant the following verse 3-5-7-or 9 times:
The Hyacinth Spell
To return a loved one or gain the affections of a love interest. This spell may be performed with any type of bulb, from a Tulip to an Onion, although the sweeter smelling ones seem to have more success! Plant the bulb in a new flower pot, naming it your loved one as you do. If possible tape a picture of the desired one to the bottom of the pot out of the view of others. Every morning and evening when you water it chant these words:
As this root grows
Items needed: One red cloth in the shape of a square
Place the red cloth on the floor or any type of flat surface. Put one candle on each corner tip. Put the picture of the person in the middle of the square cloth. With the pink chalk draw a heart around the picture or items. Chant:
Goddess of love hear me now
To Attract Someone Specific
When the moon is waxing and love is in the air, take a
photo of the man or woman you desire affection and place it face up in a
small pink box (heart shaped if you have it) then cover it and bury it with
the herb known as Ladies Thumb, outside near the entrance to your house to
draw your beloved to you.
To Attract The Opposite Sex
Brew a tea from anyone of the following herbs:
Strain and add to bath water for 7 nights in a row.
To Make Love Secure
Take a lock of hair, or nail clippings from your lover
or spouse, and by the light of a Strawberry Pink Scented Candle, place them
in a hollowed out apple, along with a dried and ground Unicorn Root, Pansy
flowers, or Spikenard and a lock of your own hair. Pass the apple through
the smoke of Frankincense and Myrrh. Wrap it in a piece of white satin, then
bury it in the back yard. ( If you don't have a back yard bury it in a large
pot, preferably with a Venus ruled plant. ie: Rose)
Folk Magick Love
IF YOU ETCH THE NAME OF THE PERSON YOU LOVE ON A
CHESTNUT AND TOSS IT IN A FIRE, IF IT CRACKS IT IS TRUE LOVE, AND IF IT
DOESN'T IT WASN'T MEANT TO BE.
Spells For A Broken Heart
(IT DIDN'T SEEM FAIR NOT TO HAVE THIS SPELL IN HERE ALSO, WE HAVE ALL HAD A BROKEN HEART!)
Place dried rose buds (not opened ones) Rue, Lavender, Jasmine, Mistletoe and Lady's Mantle into a Red or Purple Silk or Cotton pouch. Tie it with a matching ribbon and while passing it through the smoke of some love incense say:
Pouch of mine
Another Way To Attract A Lover
This ritual should be done every night before going to bed until results are achieved. It is very easy and only takes a few moments. Sit by a window in the room you are sleeping in. Look outside and find a star. The brightest ones work the best because it is easy to find more then once. Find the star and imagine it is the person you want and say:
GOODNIGHT (PERSON'S NAME)
Blow a kiss to the star and go to sleep. Don't look at
the star again until next time you perform the ritual.
Bring Your Love To You
Visualize the person you love coming to you. You can use the flame of a pink candle to help you focus, or you can drip water on the pictures of both you and your lover, then say:
Sacred water flow from me
A love that's true, once here he'll/she'll find
To Get Someone To Kiss You
Take *red lipstick* and draw a lip print on a piece of paper. Then burn the paper over a red candle while chanting:
Kiss me when next we meet
The next time you see that person he/she will run up and kiss you!
The Salt Love Spell
(From the book *Love Magick by Laurie Cabot)
Sit in front of a fire and go into the Alpha state, and hold some kosher salt in your left hand. Allow your feelings for the one you love to go into the salt. Just as salt is sprinkled on food to flavor it, visualize your love flavoring the salt. Then toss it into the flames and say:
It is not this fire I wish to salt
Spell to attract a lover
"These are the traits of a wo/man who will come to love me soon."
Hold the candle between the palms of your hands and direct all of your energy into the candle. Place the candle in its holder. Prior to lighting the candle, say:
"This candle represents the love between (your name) and a wo/man who will soon come into my life."
Light the candle and say:
"As I light this candle, the love between my intended lover and me grows strong. Our love is such, that all feels the attraction. As this candle burns, it draws us ever near. Powerful is the persuasion! His/her days are long and filled with yearning for me. His/her nights are long and filled with desire for me. To be as one, together, is all that s/he would wish. To be as one, forever is his/her immediate need. For no rest shall he find, until he is by my side!"
Sit and meditate and conetrate on your intended lover and the desire that person has for you. When the candle has burned 1/3 of the way, say:
"My lover will come to me."
And blow out the candle. Repeat this for two more nights.
Spell to be irresistable
Spell to Ease a Broken Heart
"Oh, Great Mother Goddess, enclose me in Your loving arms and nurture and bring me forth the Goddess within me."
Gaze deeply into the mirror after you have finished mixing the ingredients and say aloud,
"I represent the Great Goddess, Mother of all things. I shine in the light of the Golden Wings of Isis. All that is great and loving only belongs to me."
Then put half the mixture in the pink bag and add the penny and crystal. Carry it with you always or until you find another love. Leave the other half of the potion in the bowl, out in a room where you will smell the fragrance.
A simpler attraction spell
"By the power of three, so make it be."
...each time you go through the flame. Take a handful of cinnamon and using a spoon and bowl, mix it with dried and crushed red rose petals. Sprinkle the shell with some of the mixture and imagine yourself attracting many different people. Take the rest of the mixture and make a bath with it. Bathe in it. Then carry the shell with you in a pocket or purse at all times.
The most important love spell:
If you are not open to love, no love spell can work. You may want to do this spell as preparation for any other love spell you do. In fact, this spell to make yourself open to love might be the only love spell you will ever need. Look inside yourself: is there something in you that blocks love? For instance, do you feel you don¹t deserve love? Or perhaps you think that no one could ever love YOU? Or maybe you think you are too fat, or too thin? Maybe you are afraid to ask someone out on a date? Whatever the negative belief, fear or other internal block is, get in touch with it, then use soap and water to ³wash it away.² Actually put your hands in water and wash them as a way to get rid of your block to love!
The path of love:
If you feel the need to do more than the above spell get five red roses. Go about a block from your house and drop one rose. Drop three more on the way back home. Drip the fifth at your door. While you do all this chant out loud or silently, ³This is a path of love. My true love will find me.² You have given your true love a path by which to find you!
Proud as a peacock:
Maybe this is more your style. Wear a peacock feather or some emblem of the peacock. For instance, cut off the decorative end of a peacock feather and pin it to your lapel instead of a rose, or wear earrings shaped like peacocks. Look in the mirror and repeat as many times as you want, ³I am spreading my tail feathers.² Leave the house and see what happens. This is NOT a spell to make anyone see you the way you want them to see you. This is like a peacock spreading his tail to court, but on a psychic level.
Your true love:
Many poeple want to have a relationship with the
person who is just right for them. I was once asked ³How can I make my mate
the ideal mate for me?² ARGH!!!!!! Why do poeple feel that once they have
mated, their job is to change the beloved?
Basic herbs spell
Only do this to attract love to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"Oh Gods an Goddesses, Ladys and Masters, Old witches and Ghosts, Souls, listen to me, for I am unhappy. I am casting this spell to attract love to me for I have not yet had good luck in love. I want love attracted to me as if my body was a magnet and love was metal. I have not broken the wiccan rede therefore fullfill my spell." Then say "North, West, South East," as many times as felt needed and then say "Fire, for love, Water, for love, Earth, for love, Air, for love." Take your hands away and visualize love being sucked into yourself. Then say "Thankyou for staying here and listening to me. Thankyou for fullfilling my spell and wishes." Then close the circle. If you don't know how to do that go to my page circle casting.
Get 5 roses. Go about a block from your house and drop one. On the way back drop three more. Then drop one on your doorstep. While doing this chan the words: "This is a path of love. My true love will find me." Only works for those who believe.
Heart Love Spell
Play a CD or Tape of some romantic music that means something to you. Make sure that the music does not include songs that you associate with another person. It is important to keep specific people out of your mind performing this spell. On a sheet of cardboard, light a candle of your favorite color to represent you. Then, light a red or pink candle to represent whoever your new love may be. Using a red magic marker or crayon, draw a heart around the red candle. Every day for at least a week, relight the candles in the evening, and as soon as you light the candles, move them slightly closer together, so that on the last day, the candles are as close together as possible.
Spell to Foretell Love